Women... Why won't we ever learn?

I remember reading a forwarded email several gazillion years ago. The title of the email (if I remember correctly) was: women's greatest flaw or something to that effect.

Well, the gist of the message was basically talking about how seemingly perfect and strong women were made to be, to whether storms and be there for her children and what not, but the greatest flaw in all women is that they tend to forget their worth. Which is, very true.

Not too long ago, I blogged about my colleague's good friend, and how being in love (for her) means being in pain. That, was one of the very good examples of how women tend to behave. I often wonder why tho.

Well, I was just talking to one of my gal friends and yes, it was my turn (AGAIN) to play counsellor (I can hardly remember the number of times I've played counsellor to how many people) to her, and the revelations can be rather unnerving.

My friend, trying ways and means to get her boyfriend's attention, because somehow, he seems to have lost his interest in her, and in her desperation and loneliness, did a couple of things that I shan't reveal here.

It brings to mind (AGAIN) what have been OFTEN said and perhaps, even debated by many: Why is it that women have the knack for going back to relationships that have already broken down time and again, and why do they always sweep things under the carpet instead of resolving all outstanding issues?

I mean, yeah, so what if covering up means you can at least be with the guy you spent the last gazallion years with? Point is that deep down inside, you already know there are cracks that are unsalvageable.

I have come across many examples of couples who have always had that on-off relationship until they got married, and needless to say, its always the woman who thinks that once the wedding band was on the finger, all problems were solved, and they could start anew.

Well, unless the wedding bands came with spells, essentially they are only kidding themselves.

I mean, for fuck's sake, why do so many women always complicate things by choosing to see only the things they want to see?

What good are his "little sweet and thoughtful gestures" of sending flowers, seemingly being concerned about you etc, when truth is he's probably doing all this if only to keep you happy for a while so you don't go all ballistic on him?

Don't you think that while reality bites hard sometimes, but deceiving yourself would lead to even more heartaches?

So if the breakup is imminent (and it was rather retarded, like four years now, including the marriage), how much longer are you gonna put up the masquerade? Haven't you wasted enough time?

Time to wake the fuck up heh. What good is a guy who always hurts you? Surely you don't want somebody who only makes you cry all the time right? (Let's not even go into those who do) I'm sure that there are many other options out there, just that you choose not to see it, and I'm speaking from experience.

Its ironic that this is coming from a gal, but anyone in their right frame of mind would tell you that you deserve better. Anyways.